If I date you
I want to know you. I don’t mean your favorite color, food, and your middle name. I want to know those, too, but I mean, tell me about the time you broke your arm learning to ride a bike. Tell me the nightmares you have, the struggles you’ve dealt with, if you ever feel alone. Tell me if there’s a voice in your head that tells you “you’re not good enough”. Tell me your secrets, your thoughts, about your childhood, how you got that scar on your knee, if you sucked your thumb. Tell me about your first love and heartbreak. I want to know everything and I won’t settle for less.
Because if I date you, I want it to last. If I date you, I’m dating you for a reason.
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- Me now: How do I stop using this thing
Date a girl who says things like:
•drive safe
•text me when you’re home safe
•choke me harder
•I can’t wait to see you
•I’m proud of you
Shoutout to the person who promised me they’d never hurt me and ended up tearing my life apart
Ask Me Stuff!
1. Last beverage
2. Last phone call
3. Last text
4. Last song
5. Last time you cried
6. Dated someone twice
7. Been cheated on
8. Kissed anyone and regretted it
9. Lost someone special
10. Been depressed
11. Been drunk and threw up
12. List your three favorite colors
In the last year have you…
15. Made a new friend
16. Fallen out of love
17. Laughed until you cried
18. Met someone who changed you
19. Found out who your true friends are
20. Found out someone was talking about you
21. Kissed anyone on your FB list
22. How many people do you know on your FB list
23. Do you have any pets
24. Do you want to change your name
25. What did you do for your last birthday party
26. What time did you wake up today
27. What were you doing at midnight last night
28. Something you cannot wait for
29. Last time you saw your mother
30. One thing you wish you could change about your life
31. What are you listening to right now
32. Have you ever talked to a Tom
33. What’s getting on your nerves right now
34. Most viewed webpage
35. Nickname
36. Relationship status
37. Zodiac sign
40. College/University
41. Hair color
42. Long or short
43. Height
44. Do you have a crush on someone
45. What do you like about yourself
46. Tattoos
47. Right or left handed
48. First piercings
49. First best friend
50. First sport you joined
51. First vacation
52. First pair of trainers
53. Eating
54. Drinking
55. About to
56. Watching
57. Listening to
58. Waiting for
Your Future…
59. Want kids
60. Get married
61. Career
62. Lips or eyes
63. Hugs or kisses
64. Shorter or taller
65. Older or younger
66. Romantic or spontaneous
67. Nice stomach or arms
68. Loud or sensitive
69. Hook-up or relationship
70. Trouble maker or hesitant
71. Kissed a stranger
72. Drank hard liquor
73. Lost glasses/contacts
74. Had sex on a first date
75. Broken someone’s hear
76. Been arrested
77. Turned someone down
78. Cried when someone died
79. Fallen for a friend
Do you believe in…
80. Yourself
81. Miracles
82. Love at first sight
83. Heaven
84. Santa Claus
85. Kisses on first dates
86. Angels
Ask me things pretty plez 💗
And I understand. I understand why people hold hands: I’d always thought it was about possessiveness, saying ‘This is mine’. But it’s about maintaining contact. It is about speaking without words. It is about I want you with me and don’t go.
I don’t need another temporary person. I want someone who, even when I am an unlovable mess, will look at me with love in their eyes and stay.
Listen to me. This is your life– no one else’s. At the end of the day, it is you who has to be happy with the choices you are making, food you are eating, things you are doing, goals you are pursuing. Do not let the opinions and judgments of others stop you from doing what you feel and know in your heart is right for you. Eat the food that makes you feel best. Do what makes you feel at peace. Surround yourself with people who make you feel good, who make you laugh, who sincerely make you smile. Go after what you want– not because someone else is telling you to, but because you want to. Listen to that inner voice, trust your gut, and trust yourself.
